I was just thinking that I have the power to ruin or make joyful each day in the life of my wife.
And she has the same power over me.
Being so intimately connected with this other person, and being promised to stay with them, gives them this power.
That is such a tender and vulnerable important role. We must Steward it well.
Of course there are factors we cannot control but we have a huge influence on how their day goes. We can put a huge wrench in the gears or we can make it smooth and start their day off with joy and blessings.
So weird it with such awareness.